Friday, August 26, 2011

Ego or pride

When a housewife is not earning it seems as if she is not working which is totally wrong she is doing work 7 days a week. she just do not get a big pay check to prove it. Limiting your needs and keeping life simple works unless she wants to study in an expensive institution. That part moves like a cyclone in her happily married life when the husband says "I have payed for your fee a money wasted."
The sorrow a girl feels with this statement is enormous 
  • firstly because the reason for not taking classes and losing that fee is the complicated pregnancy faced due to his baby.
  • Secondly if her husband said a thing like that it means studies do not reflect in her mannerism ....which hurts big time
  • thirdly because the pride of a woman says I WILL PAY YOU BACK EACH PENNY but the mind frustrates on HOW?
The options for earning at home are so few and less lubricant. Good internet jobs require time and attention. If she'll start giving attention to anything else other than the baby the husband will shout again that YOU DO NOT TAKE CARE OF THE BABY WHAT KIND OF MOTHER YOU ARE
and that statement will hurt even more.
The plan she can employ is slow but steady just like old school days when as child she used to save up her Pocket money and lunch money to buy something she needs. in the same way she should do that again without telling her husband she can cut her trip to parlour her desire for a pedicure, the skin products she wanted to use and the new dress she wanted can definitely wait what won't and shouldn't wait is this opportunity to prove to her husband that My STUDIES ARE NOT A WASTE AND THEY TELL ME WHAT YOUR MONEY CANNOT TEACH YOU AND THAT IS sacrifice.

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