Having a eight month old baby girl is real challenging. A woman requires extra stamina, extra work and extra patience to deal with it. However having a eight month old baby girl who is weak and almost 3 months behind in growth is a job even harder.
The reason is that a mother has to defend her choices and her duties. While visiting a relative they are all full of concern and they shower their wisdom through advise about how to feed your child what extra measures you can take. People in Pakistan esp. ladies have one big objective “Mashwara Muft hai” which means Advice are free and in abundance.
I massage my baby twice a day, she does not cry for milk so I put an alarm on my cell, she hates taking food so I have to sing constantly to her while feeding her But telling all those things would be vain because if one is doing all that the result should be visible. It is visible she is slow and steady but slow is not good for audience and relative as others need a reason to love the child they need to see health growth or something else to find affection to a child but a mother does not need such things and think twice while criticizing a child’s health as the criticism is taken personal by the mother.HOW TO DEAl:
- · God is witness to everything and a child is His creation not mother’s
- · When you be quite and use all the anger in a powerful prayer the improvement gets better
- · When your mind is quite and anger is down recall all the advices there might be any which can be worthwhile
- · Remember do not blame yourself and keep giving your 100 percent attention wrapped in a big smile
- · A mother may not realize but she is everything for a 8 month old if her life revolves around the baby for the baby she is life
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